It's Been A While...

Totally Forgot about this Blog and for good reasons....life is CRAZY! I doubt anybody is even reading it, which is fine. We had it for Jonas's grandparents in Sweden who in the last year and a half have passed on. So who am I really writing this for now? Maybe myself,

Jonas and I went through some major relationship issues in the last year. Lucky for both of us, we came back together in the last few weeks because what I learned after meeting a few new men and going on dates etc, is that nobody compares to Jonas, NOBODY. But it sure was funny when I was on Tinder to see friends! LOL OMG it was hilarious, most surprising was a supposedly "happily" married guy,but who could blame him, his wife is pretty much laden with mental problems and always on a diet, I feel SO bad for her kids, they are going to be just like her and we really don't need more controlling, insecure, diet and exercise nazi's out there with kids =(  Her husband's pic on Tinder were some very disgusting/sexual pictures OMG Barf!!! And apparently he went to Harvard, I never laughed so hard, guys on Tinder are a bunch of Douche Bags, case in point! I'm glad I walked away from her friendship years ago, amazing how life get's clearer and easier when you cut toxic people out. The pattern I recognize now is that the women who project their problems onto me, do it out of straight jealousy and unhappiness in their own life. They will pick fights with me, because I am a happy well adjusted, successful, goal driven gal from a strong family, not a perfect family, but one that is there when we need them. I can't even imagine having my entire family alienate me and not even accepting that maybe it is because of the way I act. Some people always play the victim and are too small minded to get outside of their little bubble to see the big picture. These people also have no place in my life.

Now that the toxicity has been left behind, I've been so much happier. Amazing isn't it?  I know who my friends are at my ripe old 37 yrs of age.. lol .. and Jonas is #1. He really is the best. Next weekend we are headed to Napa for a release party at Raymond wineries, one of the wineries I now represent as an Ambassador for the  Boisset Collection  so that will be  FUN! I get to learn so much about wine now since I can sell it so this opportunity just made sense. Stella & Dot is still my baby, I'm on track to earn my 3rd incentive trip to Costa Rica this time, just have to stay consistent for the next 4 months and it's in the bag. I am a part of a few networking groups so that definitely helps! I cannot not imagine sitting at home and never meeting new people, getting out, volunteering, helping others by connecting them, it's just what I do naturally and Stella & Dot has really helped me realize this is my forte. I have GOT to get my Real Estate license, this is def the long term plan.

My PolkaDot Powerhouse Networking Group!

These mother daughter matching tunics are to die for!And how can I forget I have a team of 35 girls on my Stella team! I have never felt more loved or had more positivity in my life than when I joined S& D, it is the best tribe! I don't know what I'd do without my friends, not only on my team but across the country! Can't wait for Hoopla in Orlando in July!!

I have access to some of the best wineries in Napa! Lucky me!

Jonas is now part owner of his company too, which has it's perks! We are going to Maui in Sept for a week with the girls. They loved Mexico last summer but it's not really our speed. I know the girls will love the pool and beach in Hawaii so we are really looking forward to that! We also have our normal holiday weekends planned to Yosemite and Arnold for the 4th! A fun summer ahead for sure. I also finally feel the pull to be with my family doing fun family things rather than work, and that is huge for me. This is why Jonas and I had to take a break, we didn't carve time out for each other and I didn't want too either. But, now, that's all I want, my priorities finally shifted from a real place in my heart and I couldn't force it, it had to happen naturally.

Elsa and Astrid are getting SO big, unbelievable! I visited a friend with triplets last week and I was like NO WAY IN HELL I'm having anymore kids either. 2 is cool! So today is a family day, park, beach not sure but it will be fun! I love Sunday's with the family.

We took the girls skiing at Bear  Valley over Easter, that was a challenge but at least they got geared up and got the feeling, so maybe next year we can really take them, and they will stay in their lessons LOL! Ok I think this is a good enough update for now! Off to the coast for Family day!